A houseplant notebook
This is a running record of what worked in an ordinary flat with ordinary windows — and what quietly killed things while we were being attentive. Written after losing enough plants to notice the pattern.
Almost every "difficult" plant is a plant in the wrong light. A north-facing room is not low light — it is no light for most species. Move it before changing anything else.
Roots need air as much as water. A pot that never dries out is a pot slowly suffocating. Weight is a better guide than a schedule.
Most plants are content slightly root-bound. Repot when water runs straight through or roots circle the base — not because it has been a year.
Fixed watering days are how plants drown. These are checks, not chores — most weeks half of them end in "not yet".
The plant that thrived on neglect in the hallway was not tougher than the one we fussed over in the bedroom. It simply happened to be standing in the right light, and we happened to forget about it.